Virtual Dating for Yogis: How I Found Love and Connection Online
As a yoga enthusiast, community plays a big role in my life. Before the pandemic, attending yoga classes and retreats was one way I stayed connected to other like-minded individuals. But as social distancing measures were put in place, finding ways to maintain these connections became more challenging.
That’s when I discovered virtual dating for yogis.
At first, I was skeptical about the idea of dating online. As someone who values in-person interactions and human connection, the idea of forming relationships through a screen seemed superficial and impersonal. However, desperate times called for desperate measures.
I turned to YogaMatch.com, an online platform specifically designed for yogis looking for love or friendship within their community. With virtual dating becoming increasingly popular during the pandemic restrictions on socializing purposefully making it harder to meet people traditionally – this option matched me with potential suitors based on our shared love of yoga.
To prepare myself for this new experience, I began by researching best practices in virtual dating and building up my confidence before each virtual date that came up on my calendar – at times two per week! Here are some tips that helped me along the way:
– Make sure you have good lighting: No one wants to be squinting at a nearly dark face trying make out features or body movements.
– Dress comfortably but presentable: Apart from being your most comfortable self dress properly so as not leave any doubts on how serious you take this meeting.
– Strike up interesting conversation topics ahead of time; sporting activities are always popular ice breaker conversations.
– Be yourself!! It’s always easier just being straightforward; describe what kind of things you like doing outwith Yoga also helps build trust
– When going live ensure your voice can be easily heard – microphone checks never harmed anyone beforehand!
With these tips in mind plus significantly increased personal flexibility due to frequently practicing yoga moves virtually near the camera, I dove into virtual dating headfirst.
My first impression was that of surprise at how personal and comfortable these virtual dates can be. Despite the distance between us, my matches and I formed a connection that was both authentic and meaningful. Through deep conversations about our favorite yoga practices, meditation techniques or books we enjoyed reading, many experiences appeared to unite us…Notions like “Namaste” once quirky new-age-centric dating introductions took on a much deeper meaning as real traction within relationships commenced.
Over time, I grew my social network through YogaMatch.com. In addition to meeting potential romantic interests online – which resulted in recently beginning an serious long-distance relationship with a newfound lover living in Seattle Lissa- I made other friends who live all around the world. The community aspect of it is what keeps me coming back for more. It acted as platform where new ideas expressed within this small sphere truly help you develop yourself on/off the mat.
Virtual dating can seem intimidating at first glance but once one decides to take the risk ,it opens up so many possibilities .The ability to form relationships without leaving your own home not only helps maintain personal connections during times when physical contact is restricted but also proves itself an easily sustainable way of maintaining bonds even while one cannot travel beyond geographic limits or simply has constrained schedules preventing frequent physical mobility.
Connecting with people from all around creates an opportunity for shared learning too; obtaining different perspectives on life – breathing – understanding that you share more than just interest in yoga or spiritual endeavors .Different backgrounds blend together giving food for thought enough to last beyond a single date plus immense joy leading towards contentment “ananda” – Yogic happiness”.
Virtual dating may not have been something I initially envisioned for myself however following its course led me elsewhere allowing me meet numerous inspiring people- individuals that show up differently compared to others specific amidst their yogi values which made them even more attractive in terms of human attraction beyond physical appearance traits.
Give virtual dating a chance. You might be surprised at the deep connections you form and the sense of community it brings into your life. Namaste!
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