Digital love bonding: How technology is changing the way we connect
We’ve all heard stories of couples who met online and fell deeply in love before ever meeting in person. It used to be that this type of digital romance was seen as strange or even dangerous, but as more and more people turn to dating apps and social media to find love, it’s becoming increasingly common.
But what about those of us who are in long-term relationships? Can technology help us deepen our connection with our partners? The answer is yes — if we use it mindfully.
Here are a few ways technology can enhance our relationships:
Stay connected throughout the day
Thanks to smartphones and messaging apps like WhatsApp, we no longer have to wait until we get home at night to catch up with our partners. We can check in with each other throughout the day, sending messages or photos that let them know we’re thinking about them. This type of constant connection can help us feel more bonded and supported.
But beware — if you find yourself constantly on your phone, ignoring the world around you while communicating with your partner digitally, it could actually hurt your relationship. Make sure you strike a balance between staying connected and being present in real life.
Create shared experiences
One great thing about having a smartphone camera always at hand is that we can easily capture moments together as they happen. Taking photos or videos throughout the day can create shared memories that strengthen your bond with your partner.
For example, my husband and I recently took a trip upstate where we went apple picking for the first time. We took dozens of silly photos together (mostly on his phone), which now serve as funny reminders of our adventure together whenever they pop up on social media or when he scrolls through his photo library.
Lean on each other during tough times
There’s no denying that life has gotten harder over the past year due to COVID-19 pandemic stressors such as isolation from loved ones, employment difficulties, and health concerns. Luckily, technology has made it easier to stay in touch with our partners even when we can’t be together physically.
When my husband and I were separated due to quarantine restrictions last year, we leaned on each other for emotional support through messaging and video calls. Though it wasn’t the same as being together in person, knowing that we were there for each other helped strengthen our bond during a challenging time.
Remember that technology is just a tool
While technology can be an amazing asset for deepening our relationships with others, it’s important to remember that it’s only a tool. The real work of building a strong relationship still comes down to communication and trust.
It’s easy to get wrapped up in the excitement of chatting or texting with someone new. But if you really want to build a lasting connection with your partner (or anyone), you need to put in the effort of sharing your feelings honestly, navigating conflicts respectfully, prioritizing their happiness as well as yours\*,* supporting them through tough times and putting time into creating shared memories.
Final thoughts
Digital love bonding isn’t about replacing face-to-face interaction or turning your partner into just another screen on your phone — it’s about using these tools wisely to enhance the bond you already have.
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